20 years

Whoa, not sure how we got here... I barely feel a day over 20. Its be real and it's been fun... I wouldn't say its ALWAYS been REAL FUN, but I'm glad we are doing it together. What a beautiful ride we are on!

Here are some bullet points that I saved from this article called ULTIMATE MARRIAGE WISDOM: A LIST OF BULLET POINTS FOR YOUR FRIDGE
 a while back and come to often:


"Marriage

•  You were in love once. That’s why you got married, dumbass. So you’re probably still in love. Remember that.

•  You could have incredibly hot sex with other people if you really wanted to. But, that would ruin everything.

• When questioning your marriage, you should be questioning a lot of other things first.

• Money is more important than some things in a marriage and less important than others. You pick which ones.

• Kids change marriages. A lot. Can you handle that? Say yes, dumbass.

• No one else is married to you. It’s just him or her. That says A LOT.

• There is more true love in a grocery list than in all of the greeting cards ever written.

• Romance is nice. Patience is nicer.

• If you think you could have done better, you are a fool.

• Some marriages are perfect. Yours is not one of them. Deal with it.

• You are writing an incredible love story every time you bite your damn lip.

• There are two kinds of physical beauty, THEN and NOW.

• Marriage is way better if you take turns with the dishes, the trash, and the laundry.

• In the bedroom, just forget you’re even married.

• If one person snores and the other person doesn’t, the person who snores never gets that last little bit of wine.

• When you’re arguing with each other, you’re always half wrong. And that’s that.

• Those kids you made together? You couldn’t have done that without him/her.

• Long periods of confusion mean you’re not saying enough.

• Every time you open your mouth, it ends up in the book of your life.

• He’s so disappointing sometimes. So what? He loves you, stupid.

• She’s so disappointing sometimes. So what? She loves you, stupid.

• There are two minds in your marriage. And two hearts. And two souls. And four eyeballs.

• Little things are bigger than big things.

• Paris is a city in France. Paris In The Springtime is a mindset.

• No one cares more about your marriage more than you two.

• Remember that exact moment when you both just knew it was the real deal. Well, guess what? It’s still happening.

• Nothing is forever unless you want it to be. Isn’t that cool?

• There is magic in a messy house. There is no magic in an empty one."